The importance of belongingness and friendships within the nursing community

21 March 2024
Volume 33 · Issue 6

Nursing, by its very nature, is a profession built upon care, empathy and interpersonal connections. It transcends beyond mere diagnostics and treatment, and is deeply rooted in establishing meaningful connections with patients, their families and fellow professionals.

The essence of nursing is not simply the clinical and technical expertise, but also the human touch, understanding and genuine relationships, all of which form the bedrock of care. The profession calls for empathy and a deep sense of commitment, where every interaction is an opportunity to make a positive impact. In this context, it becomes imperative for nurses to build and nurture connections, not only for the wellbeing of the patients, but also for their own professional and personal growth.

Nursing can be emotionally draining: being constantly exposed to illness, suffering and, at times, death places a weighty emotional load on nurses. Having a sense of belonging and genuine friendships with peers can therefore provide crucial emotional support. Sharing experiences, voicing concerns and discussing the emotional impact of their roles allows nurses to process their feelings and improve their psychological wellbeing. This shared understanding fosters resilience, enabling nurses to cope with their duties without succumbing to burnout.

Continuous learning and adaptability are key aspects of nursing. As health care evolves, nurses must keep up to date with the latest techniques, technologies and nursing practices. Belonging to a supportive community means having peers with whom to share insights, resources and experiences. Learning from one another's mistakes and successes helps to accelerate individual growth. Friendships in this context can also lead to mentoring relationships, where more experienced nurses guide and support newcomers in their professional journey.

A cohesive nursing team, underpinned by strong interpersonal relationships, naturally leads to more co-ordinated and effective patient care. When nurses can rely on each other, knowing they have their peers' support, they are more likely to communicate effectively, share vital information and collaborate seamlessly. This ensures that patients receive well-rounded care, as the team operates harmoniously, pooling their collective knowledge and expertise.

Despite being in a profession that is inherently social, nurses, like anyone else, can experience feelings of isolation. Long hours, rotating shifts, and the intense demands of the job can sometimes leave little time or energy for social interaction outside the workplace.

‘When nurses have strong bonds with their peers, they are in a better position to advocate for each other ’

A sense of belonging within the nursing community becomes a lifeline. Friendships formed in the workplace often spill over into personal lives, ensuring that nurses have a social circle of peers who understand one another's unique challenges.

Job satisfaction is not solely about remuneration or career progression. Feeling valued, accepted and connected in your workplace are intrinsic aspects that greatly influence an individual's contentment with their role. When nurses feel they belong and have a circle of friends within their workplace community, they are likely to be more satisfied with their jobs. This not only impacts their wellbeing, but also directly affects the quality of care they provide.

Every profession has its highs and lows, periods of doubt and moments of reassurance. In an environment where nurses experience such a roller-coaster of emotions and experiences, having friends and a sense of belonging can give them the confidence and strength to keep going. Hearing success stories, receiving encouragement in tough times and simply knowing that one is not alone can be immensely motivating. Such positive reinforcement can rejuvenate a nurse's passion and commitment to their role.

The nursing profession, unfortunately, is confronted by the same challenges as those faced by workers elsewhere, such as bullying, discrimination and, in certain settings, even physical risks. In such situations, belongingness becomes a shield. When nurses have strong bonds with their peers, they are in a better position to advocate for each other, and ensure that everyone's rights and safety are upheld.

Friendships and a sense of belonging do not just benefit individual nurses – they contribute to a healthier work environment. Units in which nurses collaborate, support and respect one another tend to have lower levels of conflict and higher morale. Such a positive atmosphere not only makes the workplace more pleasant, it also makes it more efficient and productive.

Within the clinical world of nursing, difficult conversations are inevitable. Whether reviewing a patient's prognosis, addressing mistakes or deliberating on ethical issues, these discussions can be challenging. However, a strong sense of belonging and established friendships can create an environment of trust. When nurses trust one another, they can approach these conversations with openness, understanding and a willingness to learn and grow.

Although technical skills, knowledge and experience are undeniably vital in nursing, the softer aspects of human connection – belongingness and friendships – are also crucial. These bonds not only enrich the lives of the nurses themselves, but also enhance the quality of care they provide, testifying to the fact that at the core of nursing is the essence of human connection.